5 Things I Refuse to Sacrifice for Relationship
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Being born as Females, sacrifice is considered as our second nature. We’re taught to change ourselves for our better half since birth. We all are fighting for our independence and freedom still, there are times when:
What is the boundary of that sacrifice?
Should we draw line at it?
Is our relationship worth everything?
When should we refuse to change?
Even when I was forced to pick my relationship above many crucial things, I refused to change 5 things no matter the cost I had to bear for it.
I’ve worked half of my life to be where I am. I’ve invested my time, enjoyment, at times festivals many holidays and numerous hours. It’s my identity.
Dr. Richa Mina is My Identity, so I refuse to give it up for anyone.
I might put my profession in the backseat by taking a break or reducing my working hours but I decline to give it up. It’s my right to work and be Self-dependent.
My car is not just a car it denotes my freedom and my independence.
My freedom from:
- waiting for my better half to do things for me.
it’s not even about “a car” it’s a symbol that I can do my own work I’m independent and self-capable. Gone are the days when I’d wait demurely to be taken anywhere. I’d not give up my freedom for anyone.
I decline vehemently to close my bank account and ever lose my financial independence. It’s my right to have my own account and keep my own money from myself.
No matter how small or big my deposit is, it’s still mine to save, spend or leave.
One should never lose their financial independence for anyone.
I’m emphasizing that I’m a working woman and gone were the days where a woman is only meant to cook, clean and bear child. I’ve earned my freedom to have my own personal space.
I’m not giving it up for anyone. I deserve my own relaxation or “me time”.
I’ve earned my right to have my own personal space and no-one has the right to take it from me.
Voice my Opinion:
This is last but not the least I’ve right to express my opinion than blindly follow the orders. I’m a person with my legal rights. When the government has given us the right to express no person in our life has the right to take that freedom from us ever.
This post is dedicated to all females who had inadvertently sacrificed to keep the relationship going on. I salute them for cutting am an important part from themselves but I’m cautioning too
No one is important enough to demand such a huge sacrifice from you.
Hope this post would help some gain insight.
Be Independent, be you.
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