Post 3: MFA 2020, Season 5
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Love is that wonderful feeling that makes the world around you beautiful. You’re loved and you love someone then you’re ready to move worlds for them. Love is unconditional but there’s a very fine line between devotion and doting so tread carefully you’d not even realized when you’ve stumbled on to the other side.
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Forget your Friends
When you’re in love you tend to give more time to your relationship, which is totally natural. But do not forget the friends who have pulled you out from mess a thousand times and stood by your side.
BAE has their own place but BFFs are essential too.
If your partner is demanding you to leave your friends or family for them you should reassess your relationship: Is it Love or Control??
Keep updating Status on Social Media
You’re a social media person it’s understandable but reading lovie-dovie quotes just because you’ve found someone special is love overdose for everyone else. So keep it in mind, do not make your love the main social media content.
Over-tax your Finances
People tend to overshoot the finances by taking loved ones to expensive restaurants, getting highlights, buying expensive gifts, etc. do not overshoot your budget even when you’re in love.
Try not to reveal your accents and liabilities and financial status to your BAE. Your financial status is personal, do not share it with anyone.
Never loan money to your lover. Keep your love life and money separate many people are only attached to you for money so don’t get played by such people.
Don’t try and become the sole important person of their life. It makes the relationship toxic. You call, text, insta message, fb messenger…. Give it a break. Keep frequency of communication acceptable don’t overdo it.
They have life too beyond you, give them space.
Become Over Jealous & Controlling
Everyone has friends or colleagues of opposite gender do not stalk them on social media or listen to their conversations or messages. Degree of trust to some level is the building block of a relationship.
Keep slight degree of suspicion but don’t be paranoid in a relationship.
Try to Change them
You found them good and now you’re trying to make them better, that’s the common excuse people give themselves when they’re trying to change a person. You love a person with their good and bad.
Lie and Pretend
The relationship starting on the pedestal of lie and deception would fall eventually. Do not lie just tell them you don’t know it’s easier.
Be yourself do not try and be a better version by lying.
Public Display of Affection (PDA) is acceptable just don’t overdo it so that you make everyone uncomfortable.
That’s all for now I hope you find my post helpful. If I missed something, feel free to drop a message.
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