Post 2: MFA 2020, Season 5
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Dating is the best way to know someone and decide if you want to go ahead in the relationship or not. Everyone has apprehensions about the first date, we all have had our share of the best and worst dates in our life. How do we decide what to do and what to avoid on the first date?
There are some golden rules about things never to be done when on first date:
It definitely matters that you’re on time and not arriving late on a date after all first impression matters. Being prompt shows that you actually care about the person, so keep your calendar free when planning a date.
Talk about your ex
That’s an obvious one, I know!! but just a humble reminder to not to start with tales like “once I dated a person who…..”
Nothing kills a conversation like dating stories and tales of ex.
Give other people a chance to make opinions themselves do not start with self-praise. Dating is knowing a person so try understanding each other don’t try and be “over cool”.
Disclose your Financial Status
Everyone wants to impress each other on the date but flaunting money is not the right way to do it. It’ll definitely attract the negative kind of people who might be materialistic and greedy.
Stop Right There!!! Don’t you Dare Touch your Phone
That’s a big NO NO!!! it shows that the date is totally boring and you can’t wait to get away from it. If you really want to date this person then don’t keep on glancing at your phone or messages.
you’ve to pay attention to your date and the conversation, glancing at phone would not help you much.
Dress to Kill Literally.
It’s always better to be casual than overdressed. Please enquire about the place first before dressing so that you do not turn up flamboyantly dressy person. it’ll present under-confidence not the “bold and beautiful” image that you were aiming for.
On first date always try be subtle and chic.
No one likes to be in an argument so try and choose light topics may be movies, music, etc. you don’t have to discuss politics and religion on the first date and end up being in a fight.
PS: You’ll have plenty of time to do that further down the lane.
Forget Your Manners
Behave like an gentleman & respect your date.
Do not invade other person’s personal space and be pushy. Expecting sex on first date might not be the right way to proceed while dating someone.
Be happy that you got a hug, do not push for a kiss/sex or you might just end up being blocked.
Be civil being too drunk on first date shows how irresponsible person you are and it might not give other person the right impression.
Make Future Plans
it’s always better to leave the plans of kids and marriage for future dates it’s definitely not a topic of conversation on the first date. It’s rather the best topic if you want to end the date and never want to meet again, then go ahead talk about baby names…
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That’s all for now, I’m only covering few important points here. I might have missed many things feel free to leave a message if you feel so.
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